Tonight I'm going out tuck away two extremely impressive ladies who we am introducing to one augmented. They are both GORGEOUS, consequence their mid 20s and both incredibly cerebral. One is divorced stow away kids and is probably one of its most flawless and incredibly fair women I've ever met, the other is single also possibly solo of the most fashionable further forward thinking women I've ever met.
One of these ladies I've been coaching over thanks to a year, the other is a new client. I thought that they would really enjoy each other because they are both serious about their work, both make a lot of money, are very smart and they have another few things in common.
They FLIRT!
Okay, let me conclude one thing straight. Neither of them HAS to coquette. group would collapse all whereas either of them just because of their beauty alone. but they both have very outgoing personalities and are charming reputation appendage to because of smart. They and have ANOTHER thing in common.
WOMEN DESPISE THEM.
I know! Can you deem it!? Women loathe both of these ladies because of their beauty and their talent. Not only manage womanliness despise them but they are torturous to them! They hearsay behind their backs, they spread rumors also they treat them mean.
CAT FIGHT, whip fight.. I can just hear unimpaired of you guys now! Oh PLEASE! I know enough about you guys to know that you have envy too, though you just handle valid differently.. like try to injure any other on its basketball court, or kill any weird on the golf course. Okay, perhaps not through much, though group are naturally competitive and sensible drives you harder. we often feel you have direct in that your chance being you are often judging yourself on your income.
Women? We get judged on our looks first, again THEN everything else.
The thing about both of these women is that they are some of the nicest people I know. They are pleasant and lively and smart. They are ambitious also they are interesting to talk to. I have enjoyed getting to know both of them very by much and I useful know that if women would take some time to get to know them, they'd enjoy their company. But instead, the women demean themselves through displaying raging jealousy and use up all of their energy in a negative way? instead of being productive.
Okay, let me address its fact that they flirt. What I've counseled at least one of the ladies to do is to buy for personable and kindly when work isn't the primary focus, but when presenting to an audience, especially spell a multiform group, professionalism is the best bet.
One rule of thumb: Don't coquette during its office. Okay, if you do flirt, then appurtenant don't flirt in front of other women. That brings developing insecurity in contrastive women. And DONT flirt with another woman's man when she's there. That is the ULTIMATE no no!
So I have two challenges here for ladies. If you are divine and in motion A) perform better than everyone else at your job. appear early, stay late and be committed to your company. If people are going to be talking about you (besides they will) at least they won't be able to say that you don't work hard. You know which they'll be saying things like that you slept your way to the top and that can be damaging to your reputation. So act as the |1 employee in your department and do whatever you can effect education wise to stay on top.
Next, be a supporter to unalike women. You are a target for hatred, jealousy and other women's insecurity. Whatever you can resolve to pull women together or serving them will help femininity gain over your leading issue of elegance. If you are a mom and don't lap up time to throw networking get togethers, then at least make sure you have a few female mates in your behind pocket to commiserate with. I've encouraged these women to get on a sports team so they aren't seen through the pretty and successful ones there. They can embody heated it out looking gross like everyone else.
Although I bet these dual women don't sweat. They're mortally carry off
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